Raai de Kraai

Tobias is adjusting really well to school these days. Initially he was shy, waiting to see what happened, staying close to the teacher, playing by himself, if at all. These days he is more into playing with children and participating in all sorts of stuff. His teacher told us that she even had to reprimand him for playing too wildly with the sand-table. Tobias' take on it was: "We were just playing pirates in the sand...". It sounds like he is making some friends judging by the fact that we hear a few names repeated significantly more often than others...

At home he is more outgoing as well. The other day I caught him calling out "Loek!". So, I checked to see what he was up to. Turns out he was looking into the neighbor's yard, saw their little boy (Loek, who is less than a year older) sitting inside, and wanted to play with him, hence the calling. He later told me that he just wanted to play tennis with Loek... Also he takes out his bike or tractor more often and goes into the alleyway behind our house and stays out there quite a while sometimes. Usually it turns out he met someone and is racing or playing ball or whatever else they do out there. Very nice to see...

Just like it is hard to imagine what it is like to have children until you have them, it is hard to imagine what it is like to have children in school until you have them... (or children going out into alleyways by themselves for that matter...). It was only 2 weeks after he started school that Lisa and I were sitting in the school gym watching the children, including Tobias, perform a dance-night. Then there was the parent-teacher meeting, the cleaning of the classroom, the sportsday and all that. We try to participate as much as we can, but it just isn't possible to participate in everything. Personally, I particularly had a knot in my stomach having to drop Tobias off at the track for sportsday last Wednesday...

It was, however, certainly possible to participate in a personal assignment, or in this case in entertaining an unexpected visitor: Raai de Kraai (Raai the Crow). He is a character they use in the reading method at school. Raai is a hand puppet and he experiences all sorts of stuff through stories. Well, the handpuppet spends a weekend a year in each child's home. The idea is that Raai's experiences are recorded by the child (read: parents) and gathered in Raai's sleep-over book. As you can see we took Raai to the beach. He had a great day as did we...! Tobias and Raai were quite inseperable at times... :-)


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