
It’s that time of year again… Christmas. About two weeks before Christmas on a Tuesday night it is Kaarsjesavond (Candle-night) in Gouda. That means that they turn off all the (street)lights around the market square and light 5 candles in each window. It is quite an amazing sight, but you have to be there to really appreciate it. I tried to capture it with my camera (DMC-FZ18), but that does not work too well… The city hall is beautiful and most places around the square join in and put 5 candles in each window too. There are Christmas choirs, the Christmas story is read and then, as the grand finale of the evening, the huge Christmas tree is lit.
I have been there a few times with Lisa, my parents, some friends and such, but Tobias had not been there (at least not consciously…). So, I thought it’d be nice to take him there. So, we walked into town and went out to dinner first. We went to an Italian place and much to my amazement Tobias wanted to order a pizza! (he usually only eat spaghetti on such occasions…). And even more amazing: he ate (some of) it too…! We had a nice time hanging out together and talking about school, friends, books, Mario Galaxy 2 and such… I put up the picture of Tobias eating a pizza because:
a: that is not a common thing for him to eat
b: the pictures on the market square in the dark did not turn out so well…
Anyway, after dinner we went outside and joined the crowd. It was not nearly as crowded as I had seen it before, but there was still quite a crowd out there. We stood around being really cold for quite a while, kind of singing, hopping, clapping, anything really, to stay warm. Then the mayor had his speech and he went on about how there were all kinds of people from all kinds of backgrounds and all kinds of religions there, so, Tobias asked me: “Papa, what is a religion?”. So I answer: “Well, that’s when you believe in something, like God or something.”. So Tobias ponders this for a while and then he says: “Papa, I don’t believe in God…, but I do believe in Christmas.”.
That’s my boy!